10 Ways to Cultivate a Love of Reading in Your Child
It’s as true today as when they first coined the phrase, “Reading is Fundamental”. Reading quality material is exercise for the mind. Whether it’s Tolstoy’s “War and Peace” or just another edition of “The Twilight Saga”, children will reap amazing benefits from spending time with you, reading.
We all know it to be true so why is it so hard to get our children to do it? Well, hopefully this list of suggestions will prove useful. Here are a few things you can do as parents to help your kids develop a love of reading.
1. Read to your child often.
Select a time when you won't be hurried or bothered by other concerns. Find a nice comfortable place and remove time limits from your mindset. You will find that both of you become so immersed in the experience that time will fly by.
2. Find the books with topics they enjoy reading
Ask your child about the subjects that interest them and find good books on those topics. You might be tempted to choose books you feel will best educate them, but then it's work, not fun. This does not mean you allow your child to read whatever book they choose with out regard to maturity level or content, but by allowing them to select books that interest them they will learn the joy of reading.
3. Have a variety of reading materials
Sometimes, as parents, we feel we must control all aspects of our children's environment. By having a variety of reading options, (novels, comic books, magazines, electronic reading devices, etc...) your child will feel they are in control. For an adolescent that is one of the greatest needs they have.Try showing a genuine interest in subjects that interest your children and offer to read it with them. Or perhaps ask them to read to you from their particular selection. It might take you out of your comfort zone but the experience will reinforce how important reading is to you and thus to your child.
4. Allow your child to select easy reading options
Remember, your goal is not to guarantee your child will become the next Albert Einstein. You are trying to foster a love of reading. Reading about the adventures of "Spiderman" is no less valuable than reading some work you deem loftier.
If your child doesn't enjoy it, the point is lost.
5. Get your child a library card
Hey, they're free! How many things in life can you say that about? I remember my first library card. I felt as though I had the whole world at my feet. Make it a point to go to the library together. Show them how to find books and have fun browsing the fun categories they are interested in. You could make it a date night with ice cream after.
6. Have your child help you read while shopping or other activities
This was always an easy one for me because I usually forgot my glasses (A handy way to get your kids to help). Ask your kids to read the labels for your or to find the areas in the store by reading the directional signs. You can make a game out of it. Have a shopping list and race to see who can get the correct items first.
7. Play games that foster vocabulary skills
We began this tradition when our children were young. Now, even though they are adults with kids of their own, they still love coming home and playing word games. There are so many fun word games you can play together. Plan ahead as you take vacations or road trips. Play games in the car. One of my children's favorite travel games is the ABC game. We first select a category, such as animals, plants, or cities and then each of us takes a turn thinking of an answer as we work our way through the alphabet.
8. Place magnetic letter boards around the house
They have so many uses. Your kids can leave messages as to where they are going and how long they will be gone. Have competitions to see who can spell the longest words or who can leave the funniest message. Word play will go a long way to foster a love of language and reading in your children.
9. Encourage your children to use journals
Often we would give fun journal and pencil sets as Christmas gifts. I was always surprised at how well these gifts were received. Today we live in such an electronic age that the skill of writing is virtually disappearing. LOL and BFF are replacing the beauty of the written word. Providing journals, diaries, stationary and notebooks will encourage your kids to stretch their minds and they might just enjoy it as well.
10. Have your kids read the newspaper to you
While you are doing something quiet, have your children read interesting articles from the newspaper. Perhaps they can even find news events on their electronic devices and read those. If your child is shy or uncomfortable reading aloud simply have them read the article and explain it to you in their own words. Ask probing questions that show your level of interest in what they are saying while simultaneously demonstrating their reading comprehension. Soon you will find they come to you often with exciting world events or current news. Don't ever force the issue however. It should always be the child's choice.
There are many more Ideas and ways to achieve the end goal of boosting reading enjoyment. The point is to do something. I remember watching my children as they would find a good book and become immersed in it. I would cringe at times as they read some material but ultimately they would choose works that would elevate them. While electronic gadgets are wonderful, playing Halo for hours on end will do little to build a young mind. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and a place for such activities. The goal is to foster a greater love of the written word. I hope these tips have helped. For a complete listing of more helpful tips, check out these links:
Ten Ways to Cultivate a Love of Reading in Students
The Benefits of reading
Improve reading for children ages 6 - 18
And as always, don't forget to check out all the great Living Science Readers at The Gumshoe Archives. Til next time, happy reading.